Sometimes we get it all wrong. In order to achieve a better life we feel like we have to have more, do more and accomplish more. Sometimes more helps, but most of the time “better” is about doing the right things, not more things.
Sometimes when we’re feeling behind and overwhelmed we need to SIMPLIFY, not work harder to catch up.
Look at what you’re doing – is it worth it? Is the time you’re spending on that thing (whatever it is) worth what you’re getting from it? Does it align with your values? Does it make sense?
At home – are you happy with the amount of time you have to spend cleaning and organizing your stuff? Or would it be better to get rid of some of the excess and have more time for life? *
Is the time you spend catching up after a day of busy activities worth it? What would it look like to do fewer things, invest in them, and have a little margin in your life at the end of the day?
Even simpler – When you’re doing dishes, is the stuff you use most often the most accessible? Or are you wasting minutes every day with an inefficient setup?
Or at your job – is the paperwork you do (or require others to do) helpful? Or is it taking up more time than it’s worth?
How do you track your budget? Could you do a better job with more tracking? Less tracking? A simpler method?
Most people slow down a little over the summer. Why not use that time to examine your values and the default systems and habits you live by? Do they support those values?
Sometimes we create busyness for ourselves because it feels good. It feels like we’re productive. It’s easier to be busy than to make the tough decisions and do the things we really value.
Take some time to write out the things you really care about – the areas of life that you value. And list a few goals or dreams for each of those areas. It could be family, relationships, health, your job, and your broader mission or platform. Your list will look different. Where are you right now? Where do you want to be?
It’s worth centering our actions around deeply held values, not reactionary impulses.
Maybe it means doing less stuff so we can do the right things. Or maybe being ok with the dishes staying dirty a little while longer so we can connect with a friend. Or maybe it’s getting the junk out of the sink so you can cook a real meal and sit down for quality time with your family.
It looks different for each person. But we all feel it inside. We know where those areas of change are for us. Where are yours?
*Yes – this may be a little autobiographical.